Of reckless parenting and Rev Roper
Most recently, Prime Minister Bruce Golding scholarly and correctly enunciated that reckless parenting significantly contributed to Jamaica’s crime problems because the country’s young men were not being brought up properly hence, they have turned to a life of criminality, thus wreaking havoc upon and across the entire country. Mr Golding publicly and eruditely stated that because of this reckless parenting the country was unfortunately producing a factory of criminals faster than they are apprehended and brought before the courts.
How could any honest, decent and intellectually thinking Jamaican citizen residing in this country, disagree with such a forthright, dispassionate and honest prime ministerial statement? Well, I was extremely shocked and amazed when on December 31, 2007, I heard Sunday Herald columnist and co-host of News Talk 93 FM’s evening current affairs programme, ‘The Evening Edition’, Rev. Garnett Roper sarcastically and harshly criticizing Prime Minister Golding for using the term reckless parenting.
According to Rev. Roper the Prime Minister was rudely, crudely, disrespectfully and disgracefully talking down to the Jamaican people and concomitantly Mr. Golding was insulting the lower class of the Jamaican society.
Rev. Roper stated that Prime Minister Golding was showing no respect for the ordinary Jamaican citizens who are parents. And that Mr. Golding should be responsible by apoligising to the Jamaican people for that reprehensible and disgusting term reckless parenting and its so-called contribution to Jamaica’s crime problems.
Flabbergasted
When I heard Rev. Roper’s comments I was most certainly shocked and bewildered, to put it bluntly. Also, similarly shocked and flabbergasted to the highest level like myself was political commentator and newspaper columnist, Kevin O’Brien Chang who was a guest on the said radio programme.
How on God’s earth could Rev. Roper be condemning Prime Minister Golding’s statement of reckless parenting as talking down to the Jamaican people. The incontrovertible fact is that a gargantuan amount of reckless parenting has and is lavishly taking place all across the country. Consequently, this is causing many misguided and uneducated young men to turn to criminality as a means of survival quite unfortunately and distressing. It is a fact that a large number of youngsters across the country are scandalously being brought and grown up in a most reckless manner by parents for a huge number of reasons and this sad situation is a major contributory factor to the widespread criminality problems throughout the country.
The Prime Minister is bang on target and absolutely correct when he states that reckless parenting is immensely and prodigiously contributing to the country’s devastating crime problems. A majority of parents in this country are irresponsible, careless and reckless when carrying out their parental duties and responsibilities and that is why, there are so many youngsters getting involved in criminal activities throughout the country.
Many parents in this country blatantly ignore their parental duties and they have very little care and concern for their children; some of these parents are only concerned about having the most expensive clothes and jewellery. To hell, with their children!
Deteriorating
Another major problem with parenting in this country is the fact that many of these mothers and fathers are ruthless, uncaring and grossly irresponsible in their cardinal parenting duties and obligations that they give up their children and callously send them to their grandparents, aunts, uncles, great grandfathers and mothers and cousins. And thereafter, these same children grow up without their birth parents and are grown with very little supervision and are allowed to be a law unto themselves.
These same children do poorly in school and thereafter in coming years they engage in gang related activities and become savage, brutal and barbaric criminals. If people are not willing to take the direct responsibility to meticulously, personally and carefully bring up their children in their homes, then they must not have children. Do you understand that, Rev. Roper? The parenting structure in Jamaica has massively deteriorated over the past 20 years and that is why the society is manufacturing so much young criminals than can be apprehended by the police. Please be fair, balanced and intelligent and understand that fact, Rev. Roper.
Do not be hypocritical, partisan and intellectually shallow in your reasoning, Rev. Roper. Prime Minister Golding is unambiguously correct, truthful and honest when he stated that reckless parenting is a major contributory factor to Jamaica’s dangerously ever increasing crime rate. Parents who neglect their children are creating the fertile and appropriate ground for them to become vicious criminals and this situation is becoming worse on a yearly basis thus, this country is now in a parental and crime crisis, to the country’s detriment.
As Kevin Chang so rightly articulated on Rev. Roper’s current affairs programme, Roper is being simplistic, profoundly unfair and rather absurd when he arrogantly castigates the Prime Minister for speaking the truth, as it relates to the reckless parenting issue. He outrightly and forthrightly dismissed Rev. Roper’s statement that when Prime Minister Golding stated that reckless parenting was a major cause for some for the country’s crime and murder problems, he (Golding) was talking down to a certain class of the Jamaican society. Well, that is a ludicrous, flawed and silly argument from Rev. Roper, a supposedly intelligent and major commentator in this country.
If this reckless parenting issue is not prudently and appropriately dealt with in this country, if parents don’t become responsible, then more and more young men will turn to criminal activities across the country. Please understand that fact, Rev. Roper. I have studied sociology and psychology and you have also done so. Please do not earnestly try to tear down and lambaste Prime Minister Golding when he speaks the truth about reckless parenting and its direct link to criminality in this country, Rev. Roper.
Do the honourable, decent and respectable thing and immediately withdraw your frivolous and unfair comments of the Prime Minister. Broad thinking minds recognize their mistakes and apologize, shallow and warped minds refuse to do so.
Robert Dalley, executive Chairman and Certified Drug Rehabilitation Specialist at the Narcotics Information Centre of St. James.
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